Can You Trust Online Dating Websites?

As millions of people over the world make their way to on-line dating sites in order to find love, countless teams of scientists are closely watching their every single move.  Scientists, like everyone else, are truly interested in whether one can actually find love on the Internet. The difference is that in the world of science, a more systematic approach is utilized in order to determine whether you can trust on-line dating sites are not.  Information regarding the success stories showcased on many of the world’s most popular on-line dating sites has been gathered and closely evaluated by various scholars around the world. They use this data to study aspects of on-line dating such as trust, attraction as well as deception.  They also take into account the importance of race, politics as well as religion.

One of the more interesting aspects about on-line dating profiles is that most daters will openly admit that they are obese but will often try to escape any questions associated with their political views. And although it is racial, it has been discovered that many Caucasian on-line daters adamantly refuse to date outside their race; an issue that is not as prevalent in other races.  Although the concept of dating and falling in love is nothing new, very little research has been done in the field. As a result, there is very little data regarding the process of dating and selecting a mate. Up until the advent of the on-line dating industry, the only information that was available to scientists was the information compiled through centuries of census data.

With the help of a grant from the National Science Foundation, Professor Gerald A. Mendelsohn from the University of California, Berkeley embarked on an extensive study of on-line dating habits. His research consisted of millions of dating profiles from some of the most active on-line dating sites in the world. These sites average more than 600 million visits every single month.  In the United States alone, 21 percent of all heterosexual couples and as much a 61 percent of same-sex couples initially met on-line. This information is derived not only from anonymous profile content that researchers received from the various on-line dating sites, but is also through surveys and face-to-face interviews with on-line daters.

Researchers have found that when it comes to on-line dating, that opposites do not attract one another. They have also discovered that honesty may not be the best policy. The question of whether you can trust online dating sites comes down to personal choice.  According to the research, 81 percent of all on-line daters lie on information such as their height, weight as well as their age. Because of the fact that on-line daters expect to eventually meet another person through the dating site, their propensity to lie is limited to small physiological descriptions.

When it comes to weight, most women choose to describe themselves as being roughly a half pound thinner than they are in real life. Men on the other hand only knock off an average of two pounds from their actual body weight.  And although women are generally very honest about their height when fulfilling their on-line dating profile, men tend to round up their height to the nearest half of an inch.  In most profiles, it was determined that online daters were very honest about their age. Obviously this comes down to the fact that people can claim some bit of ignorance regarding their height and weight, but is much harder to claim that they were unaware of any age difference. However, the profile photos uploaded by women are generally more than one and a half years old. Men on the other hand choose to upload profile photos that are less than six months old.

For the most part, because there is an intention to eventually meet somebody through an on-line dating site, most on-line dating profiles are fairly accurate. The only time that a member lies in their profile is to provide information about themselves with the intent of attracting a particular audience.  So can you trust on-line dating sites? Sure, why not.

About The Author
I’m the Co-Founder and Webmaster of several dating sites including Chicks For Dating website (ChicksForDating.com). I started in the dating area in 2005, writing articles and press releases as freelancer and helping in the envisioning and development of international dating websites (most of them from Latin-America  and Europe), believing that technology can help soul-mates to find real love and long-term relationships. I enjoy my free time reading technology articles, walking and hearing music dreaming in new dating projects.

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Walk Of Shame? Make It A Stride Of Pride

The walk of shame. It’s happened to the best of us. Let me explain how you can, with a bit of pre-planning, turn it into a stride of pride!

Let’s face it; most one-night stands are spontaneous. But us women don’t like being caught short, so if you’re like me, you probably carry some essentials with you – just in case.

Here’s what I ensure I have with me, when heading out for a night on the town:

Emergency Concealer
You’re probably going to wake up caked in last night’s make-up, which probably means all you need is some concealer and brightener to sort yourself out. A little dab under your eyes, and perhaps a few dabs across your cheeks and you’ll be looking fab.

Travel Sized Perfume and Deodorant
Not only useful for packing in your hand luggage, these mini deodorants help get rid of the horrendous sweat smell from all that exercise the night before! Check out some diddly perfumes too, or fill a small bottle with your favourite scent to ensure you smell as-good-as-new the morning after.

Spare Knickers
They’re probably down the back or the sofa. Or the bed. Or halfway up the stairs. Save yourself from having to run around covering your bits with a cushion and bring a spare pair of knickers.

Sunglasses
An obvious give-away for a lack of sleep is those baggy eyes. Cover up with some sexy shades and no-one will be any the wiser. It’s like an instant facelift. Plus, they make you look cool, right?

Dry Shampoo
Your hair is probably also a mess. Bring a hair tie and pull it back is one way of hiding that sex-crazed hair-do. Another option is dry shampoo or powdered shampoo. Sprinkle or spray into your hair and watch the amazing transformation. Or don’t – because you probably don’t have a mirror.

Flats
The biggest signal that someone had a good night out is the fact they’re still strutting in their 4″ heels the morning after. Bring a pair of flats and you’ll be sorted for the walk home. You’ll definitely not regret this one!

Phone Charger
Give a friend a call, grab a cab, check the train times, whatever. It’s a lot easier when you can be in contact with the rest of the world.

Just remember, stay safe and have fun! There’s nothing better than that wonderful feeling the morning after a great night, if you know what I mean 😉

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