How To Turn A Girl On

 

For guys, arousal is often linked with physical attraction and sexual variation. For girls, things are a little more complex.
There is an element of pure sexual attraction, but to turn a girl on and arouse her properly, there is more than meets the eye.

You see, for a girl to become aroused, it starts from within, and you must excite her mind as well as her body. Don’t worry, follow my advice below and you’ll get her tingly in no time.

Before we go any further, the most important thing to know is that a woman will take longer to become aroused than you as a man. Just because you are ready to go, doesn’t mean she is. Don’t be selfish, take your time, and ensure that you have ensured she is ready before moving any further.

Remember that every girl is different. What works for one will differ for another. Variety is a key factor in keeping both of you happy and leading to you both having better orgasms.

Start the game of arousal as early as you can. Perhaps send flirty texts and messages to her during the day whilst she’s at work. The naughtiness of having these thoughts in a typically sex-free location, plus the fact that she knows she can’t have you yet, will heighten her desire throughout the day. Make promises of all the things you would love to do to her, be cheeky, fun and flirtateous.

Ensure when you do see her you start with light, soft and sensual touches. Caress her gently, and kiss her for slightly longer than you usually would. Arouse her as much as possible before you’ve even made it to the bedroom. You may find she’ll be rushing you in there and whipping your clothes off before you even blink!

Once you’re together, take things slow. Foreplay should not be rushed. Spend a few minutes extra at this stage than you usually would and you will have a much better time during intercourse. Take advantage of the areas she is most sensitive in; ears, neck, thighs. Pay special attention to anything you know she already loves. Whisper in her ears and talk dirty if you think it’s something she will enjoy.

All in all, remember to take it slow, but strongly. Don’t let her mind wander too far during foreplay, both of you need to keep focussed.

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They are a Virgin, You’re Not. What to do?

So, the situation is this – your other half is a virgin but you’re not. How do you deal with this, do you tell your partner, will it effect your relationship? Find out now…

Lots of people have a past. Some better than others. It’s generally important in a relationship to ensure that you have mutual trust and understanding and it’s never a good idea to lie about your past as it will only end in hurt if your OH finds out.

However, one particularity sticky topic is the question of virginity. Some people feel they should wait for “the one”, for marriage or perhaps they just feel they’re not ready to be that intimate yet. The most important thing is not to pressure your OH into doing something they are not ready to do, just because your friends are or because you think it’s normal.

Quite often you may begin dating someone who has decided (for whichever reason) to remain a virgin. I would always say that it’s best to be upfront with your new partner about whether or not you are also. You don’t need to go into the minute detail of how many or when, but it will be good for them to know otherwise if you find out later and disagree over the issue it could definitely cause some tension.

It can be a difficult topic to breach, and it’s probably not worth mentioning out of the blue. I’d recommend waiting until the topic arises naturally and at which point you can let them know. Some partners also like to know a little about the sexual history of their significant other in case there is a chance they are carrying an STD, so also bear that in mind.

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Why Technology Is Ruining Your Relationship: We’re All Secret Stalkers

Again, technology is to blame here for the ease of access to information on people. Thanks to social media, it’s almost impossible to disappear completely anymore. Especially so if you share mutual friends, a college or University or perhaps have album after album of photos together.

More and more people are using Facebook and other social networking sites to stalk both ex-partners and potential new crushes. It may be a great way to see how they’re doing, find out some of their interests you can use later to chat them up or perhaps you just want to see what they look like at their best (and worst!). The problem is, and specficially when it comes to stalking ex-girlfriends or ex-boyfriends, is that it prevents us from getting over them and moving on in our lives.

Unfortunately, too much information can cause anxiety. Spot them in a photo with a new guy? Bet that winds you up, right? It can really hamper a break up if you keep an eye on what they’re up to. So, next time you need to get over someone, block them from appearing in your newsfeed, un-friend them, or go tee-total in the digital world. You’ll thank me later.

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Why Technology Is Ruining Your Relationship: The Explosion of Porn

Another way in which the modern world is causing problems for couples is the ease and convenience in which porn can be accessed these days. Unfortunately, it tends to be men who watch more porn and with increasing amounts of hardcore and alternative material, women are often feeling pressured to adhere to a male-centric sexual world they just don’t enjoy.

Many of you know that real sex is nothing like porn sex, but with it becoming more and more commonplace and less of a taboo topic between couples, the desire to see your partner perform like your favourite star is just putting unnecessary pressure on couples.

That’s if their partners are even after them at all any more. In fact, lots of women these days are complaining they just aren’t as adored as much by their partners anymore. They worry about their looks in comparison to these idealistic, photoshopped women of the internet world. We know that women already are struggling with their image in society – why must their partners be piling on even more pressure?

Sorry if this article sounds a little sexually biased, but please, do comment if you have views on this topic as it is something I hold dear to my heart.

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Aphrodisiac Desserts

For millennia, it has been known that certain foods have an aphrodisiac affect on most humans. And although these effects are not long-term, they are very effective in improving any relationship or sexual experience.  Over the years, there have been a number of scientific studies on the effectiveness of aphrodisiacs. These aphrodisiacs come in many different shapes and sizes. For the most part, many of them are actually popular desserts. There are also regular meals that have some effect as well as numerous fruits and vegetables that have been known for their aphrodisiac influences.

Different kinds of foods are capable of changing a person’s disposition. Some foods can make somebody upset, while others can make them irritable. Certain foods can make somebody happy while others can arouse sexual desires in a person. This all comes down to the chemical reaction which occurs in our brains after we eat certain types of foods. These foods release different types of chemicals in the body that affects us all differently.  Certain foods are capable of triggering the body to release endorphins into the bloodstream. These endorphins are responsible for transmitting electrical impulses through our nervous system. They are also directly responsible for our sex drive and the feeling of arousal.

Not only do these aphrodisiac desserts and foods help to improve our sexual experience, but they also have a positive effect on our overall health. When endorphins are released into the body, our cholesterol is reduced substantially. These endorphins also increase our metabolism which causes us to burn through more calories; even when sitting still. There are many, many positive benefits to consuming aphrodisiacs on a regular basis.  Any type of food which gives us a sensual indulgence when consumed is considered an aphrodisiac. For example, honey is a sweet and delicious condiment, which when consumed, tantalizes taste buds in a way that sends shivers down our spine. It is also the main ingredient in a popular dessert known as baklava.

Baklava itself is considered an excellent aphrodisiac dessert. It is very simple to prepare, and when made properly it can send anyone into sensual bliss. Not only does it taste great, but within milliseconds of being consumed endorphins are released through the body arousing desires that were never thought possible.  Even chocolate brownies are considered to be aphrodisiacs. Both chocolate as well as nuts are popular aphrodisiac ingredients. When you combine multiple ingredients that are considered to be aphrodisiacs into one easy-to-swallow dessert, you are able to improve the experience even more.

Many fresh berries including blueberries, raspberries as well as strawberries are also aphrodisiacs. These can be combined in numerous different ways with other ingredients such as with cream to make an excellent dessert that will send anyone into a sensual bliss.  So when you want to truly arouse the person that you love, start by giving him something great to eat. From the very first moment that take place the aphrodisiac desserts in their mouth, the endorphins are released and they become completely hooked on you.

About The Author
SovietLover is a freelance writer based in United States who has researched several dating sites for women since 2007 and participated in the development of several dating events to share experiences and knowledge. He is a keen reader and article writer at Sovietmate Marriage Agency (www.sovietmate.net an online CIS dating site). When he has the time, he enjoys riding bicycle and swimming. He can speak and write English and Spanish languages.

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