If your man is attached at the hip to his friends, chances are he’ll be a nervous lover.
The fact that he only moves as one means he’ll be a nervous lover. He’d need lots of encouragement and approval before he’ll relax because he’s probably not terribly good at thinking for himself.
If you’re a dominant lover and don’t mind playing teacher, go for it! If you know what you want, he’ll fit in with you.
But don’t expect any surprises: he’s probably got a few techniques down pat, but he’s too scared to take a risk and veer into uncharted kingdoms.
All good lovers need to move with the flow. People set in their ways generally aren’t the best in bed…
If he hyperventilates when forced to catch the 6.15 rather than the 6.10, it’s a bit of a worry, sexually.
A man who’s robotic and stinks of predictability is a good indication he makes love in exactly the same way, every single time (and don’t even think about moving an inch to the left or he’ll wonder what’s wrong).
It’s one thing to find something good and stick to it, but he needs to be flexible enough to mould to your needs. Great sex can be spontaneous, make sure he can be too.
If he’s erect, you will be pleasantly, well, pleasured.
And by erect, I mean as in stands up straight! Posture is indicative of laziness. If he stands with shoulders back and tummy in, he’ll make an effort.
Good posture also usually means the person is confident and confidence can go miles in the bedroom.
Tip #3: Play A Game
No, I’m not talking mind games. Get a deck of cards out and play strip poker. Yes, it’s something you probably haven’t done since those teenage parties, but playing strip poker is a great way to get naked together. Drawing out the process that little longer just increases the feeling of anticipation, and who wouldn’t want that? 😉
Once you’re naked, keep on playing. Rules are simple: whoever loses means the other person gets to pick one sexual favour to be carried out there and then. Put a time limit on it for say 30 seconds.
This prolonged fore-play technique is great as it is simple and effective. By the time you are finished with the pack, you’ll both be insanely turned on.
It doesn’t have to be poker either, it can be any variety of card games with regular wins and losses. Snap is another great one as the high-speed play element just makes things more exciting!
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