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Why Technology Is Ruining Your Relationship: Cheating is Cheating

So who’d have thought technology actually ruined relationships.

Well, it does. I imagine most of you probably think I’m going on the lines of your partner taking too many selfies, spending their life Tweeting or perhaps they’re too stuck it the world of Instagram. No, I’m on about internet infidelity.

The internet has made it far easier for people to meet, connect, hook-up, whatever. That’s great if you’re single, but if you’re in a relationship, the urge to cheat on your partner is higher than ever. The virtual world offers the convenience and anonymity that can prove too tempting for many to resist, even if they have a partner who is willing to have sex with them right there in the other room. There’s no physical contact, so what’s the problem? Is talking or flirting with other people on-line when you’re already in a relationship cheating?

77% of people would tend to agree, that any type of on-line flirting or cyber-sex is in fact cheating. Despite the many reasons a cheater could use to rationalise their activities, an overwhelming majority of people agree that cheating is cheating, regardless of the medium. It’s a new and puzzling grey area that has become such a big problem, it’s actually been the reason behind almost a third of divorce cases in the last few years.

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How To Go About Flirting Effectively – Simple Tricks For Every Man

Men… How do you want to go about flirting? Here’s an easy idea:

Pretend you’re a palm reader.

Think about it – easy access to smoothly touch her hand and whisper romantic nothings in her ears. What’s the future hold? What’s your strengths? What magical things are going to happen? Most women love this kind of stuff. It gives them chills as their dreams are whispered into their ears. It’s an instant signal that you understand them.

Whatever technique you use, cheesy lines shouldn’t be in your arsenal. Instead, focus on catching her attention in an unusual way. Cute stuff works well – why do you think so many men with babies on their arms or cute puppies attract so much attention? Women are intrigued and curious and have to know more! Just make sure she know’s the baby isn’t yours! Perhaps some unusual clothing might work. If you prefer girls of a certain fandom, wearing the correct kind of merchandise might attract their attention (although may alienate you from other potential matches, so be careful!).

Stand out. Draw attention. But only in a good way – something she doesn’t come across often. Magic is a trick also often used by pickup artists and the like. It’s an easy opener (“hey, do you want to see some magic?”) and if you can show off then it demonstrates confidence and something a little special.

Music also appeals to a lot of women. Guitar perhaps unfairly stands out in front of this category. Woo that woman by writing her a song. Catch her eyes in the crowd whilst playing something romantic on-stage…

Find your comfort zone, and your skill. Use it to your advantage and you’ll get more attention from women than ever.

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How to take a Girl out on a Perfect Date

If you ask a woman what the perfect date is, the answer will probably be horribly clichéd. Something about a romantic candle-lit dinner, great conversation and a hand-in-hand walk along the beach in the moonlight. In other words, she’s looking for a build up of the romance so that when (or if!) you return home later, you’ll both be in an insanely intimate mood.

If you ask a guy what the perfect date is, especially when he’s chatting with his friends, it’s probably something to do with the horizontal naked dancing.

Men and women are often in the same place at the same time, sharing the same experience, but see it in totally different ways. It means different things from different points of view. I’m not saying all men and all women are like that, but there’s enough out there that I feel I can generalise enough at this point.

So then, that leads to the question of whether or not the perfect date actually exists? Perhaps it only exists in our minds as we map out how we would like it to go. But hey, reality always screws even with the best laid plans. Either way, it doesn’t mean we can’t at least try to have the perfect date. Whether it’s a first date, or one of many – every date can reach that same level of high standards of being incredible. Not every date has to be better than the last, but you just have to keep sight of love and not let things wane after time. The so called ‘honeymoon period’.

It’s a good thing there are a lot of dating guides out there really. If you’re married for 40 years and date once per week, that’s over 2,000 dates you’ll go on together – I can see how it’s hard to stay original. I can safely say that of the many dates I’ve been on myself, most guys aim for the same thing and although it’s great, it does get very same-y. So! Don’t just assume that a perfect date has to be a normal date. In fact, the more memorable the better! You have to change things, you have to keep it original. Going to the same place every week just gets BORING. It’s not dating, it’s just repeating.

I always love it when I talk to guys who’ve read advice and treated it just as that. Advice. Don’t just take verbatim what’s printed in these guides. Add your own twists, add your own personalities. Take the ideas put forth and make them you’re own. How you do that, well, I’ll leave you to turn a great date into a perfect date.

 

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Ten Top Tips to Improve your Flirting and Achieve More With Women

How do you flirt? It’s an age old question. You don’t have to look like Clooney, Pitt, or whoever it is you guys fancy though to make members of the opposite sex go weak at the knees however. Yes, a great smile and charming looks helps, but it isn’t the be-all and end-all.

Want girls and guys to follow you around like paparazzi? Follow our flirting tips below:

  1. Eye Contact, create eye contact with the person you want to get flirty with for a minimum of 5 seconds. Any less and they won’t notice, more seems creepy. Smile (a little) and then look away slowly. Do this a few times in the first 15-20 minutes. Your victim needs to know that you’re interested and eye contact is a universal signal to show this. Don’t stare so hard you burn a hole in their face though – keep it casual!
  2. Smile,  this is the best flirting weapon in your arsenal. It makes you look approachable and open. Nothing over the top, just an honest and attractive smile. If you’ve been locking eyes and sharing smiles then you’re certainly ready for phase 2 – the introduction!
  3. Second Glances, this one works well for women. As you walk past your target, make sure you (similar to step #1) make eye contact, look away, and then make eye contact again. Smile as you walk past. This will literally turn heads.
  4. The Lips – lick them. Not like a porn star, but perhaps as if you were removing a spec of sugar. Licking of the lips is a sure fire way people are thinking about seductive things such as kissing.
  5. Cross Your Legs, again for the women. Crossed legs are massive subliminal turn ons for men.
  6. Self Pruning (The Copycat!) – watch your target and copy their body language. Perhaps it’s running your fingers through your hair or touching a part of your face. A bit of self pruning for women here never goes amiss. Fix your makeup, check your eyeliner. Whatever – the fact you’re making it obvious you want to look your best shows off you’re interested.
  7. Posture – men! Stand up tall and straight. No slouching! Remember you need to be the prominent alpha male in the room. So feel like it and she will see it. Pull your shoulders back, remain calm and walk with pride.
  8. Talk With Your Feet, this is an age-old body language trick. Women, point your toes in as it shows the fact you are available, and men, point your toes slightly out to promote dominance.
  9. Pay Attention – focus on what the other person is saying. Listen to what they’re saying and respond appropriately. If you sound genuinely interested in what they have to say you won’t go far wrong! Keep things simple and light and let them do most of the talking if that helps.
  10. Leave Them Wanting More, in bars and clubs this works well. Introduce yourself and make first contact. Leave the conversation, however, just before you normally would. Your new interest will be left wanting more. They’ll want to finish that conversation. And how will they satisfy that need? Well, by finding you again later of course!

Follow these 10 top tips and you’ll be on the road to successful flirting in no time 🙂

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