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Top Signs A Man Is Good In Bed #5 – Dealing With The Unexpected

All good lovers need to move with the flow. People set in their ways generally aren’t the best in bed…

If he hyperventilates when forced to catch the 6.15 rather than the 6.10, it’s a bit of a worry, sexually.

A man who’s robotic and stinks of predictability is a good indication he makes love in exactly the same way, every single time (and don’t even think about moving an inch to the left or he’ll wonder what’s wrong).

It’s one thing to find something good and stick to it, but he needs to be flexible enough to mould to your needs. Great sex can be spontaneous, make sure he can be too.

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Top Signs A Man Is Good In Bed #4 – Posture

If he’s erect, you will be pleasantly, well, pleasured.

And by erect, I mean as in stands up straight! Posture is indicative of laziness. If he stands with shoulders back and tummy in, he’ll make an effort.

Good posture also usually means the person is confident and confidence can go miles in the bedroom.

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Why Good Sex Doesn’t Last For Hours – 15 to 30 Minutes Is The Sweet Spot

Sometimes the media likes to mislead us. In fact, it happens all the time. One of the huge misconceptions amongst people I’ve spoken to is the time that sex should last.

Lots of people believe that sex should go on for hours and hours. It simply isn’t true.

Good sex should last between 15 and 30 minutes. I’m not talking about foreplay of course, that should come first. But actual penetration.
Ignore what you’re mates are telling you (it’s probably all lies anyway). Anything more than 30 minutes will get boring, painful and tedious.
Don’t just go on and on, hoping she’ll orgasm. Sometimes women don’t. So do learn to admit defeat. At least stop with what you’re doing (it’s obviously not working) and try something else instead. It’s perhaps better to go back to a bit of foreplay, warm her up again and try again after a bit of a break. Maybe you just have to give up for the night and try again tomorrow.

The most important thing guys, is to remember that time isn’t everything. Just because you can “last” for hours on end, doesn’t mean she’s enjoying it any more than if it was over in 25 minutes.

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Why Mid-Session Feedback Is A Turn-Off Not Sex Turn-On

One of the biggest ways to turn a woman off during sex is constantly asking questions. “Was that good?” “Am I doing OK?” “Would you like more?”. Stop it.

Communication is extremely important during intimate sessions, but asking questions is the wrong way to go about it. Men, you need to learn to communicate through body language. Watch for her eyes, her lips, her convulsions. Her reactions will be telling you everything you need to know. If she squirms or pushes you away it’s obviously not right, so try something else instead. If she’s moaning, pulling you closer and writhing on the bed (in a good way), then you’re doing it right, so keep going!

Just please refrain from constantly checking how it’s going, it just isn’t a turn on.

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Friday’s Top Sex Tip #5 – Shower Time

So, before I head out for a night on the tiles, here’s the fifth instalment of tips from this week:

 Top Tip #5: Shower Time

Many couples will agree that a shower together is one of the most intimate but classical sexual fantasies.
As you probably know, it’s never quite like the movies – and the slippery surfaces make things a little awkward and often downright dangerous.
Water isn’t a great lubricant either. You’ll be washing away natural lubricant so it’s never going to be as comfortable for her.

How is this a tip you may ask? Well, my suggestion is practise, practise, practise. But, on dry land. Before you can master the bathroom love-making you’ve dreamed of, make sure you are capable of doing it standing up with both feet firmly on the floor. Once you’ve sorted that, then move things away from the bedroom 😉

Have fun readers!

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