Improve Your Success With Women – Confidence

Are you having trouble with attracting and seducing any hot women you meet?

Well if so, then pay close attention to what I’m about to tell you…

If you’re interested in increasing your overall success with women, then you should learn ONE important thing. It is being able to approach women WITHOUT any fear of rejection! I know this sounds simplistic, but many guys have major problems with this one aspect of their dating lives. They’re afraid to approach women because they worry about what could go wrong. Typically a lot of men get nervous thinking about what a woman will say and how she might reject him.

All you have to do is learn how to overcome your fear of rejection. By confidently walking up to a woman with NO fear of rejection, you’ll instantly become an attractive guy who has a seductive personality.

Here’s an example to illustrate this point…  One of my good friends is able to attract and seduce many beautiful women because he has almost no fear of rejection. While he knows he’s might be rejected, he’s able to eliminate all negative thought patterns. Instead he simply focuses on his approach and initiating conversations with women.  As you can see, guys with no fear of rejection are able to increase their overall success with women. If you learn to cultivate this personality, you’ll find that you’ll become better with women as well. All you have to do is learn how to act confidently on all interactions with women. When you’re talking to women, simply concentrate on the conversation and work at eradicating all negative thoughts. Just relax and enjoy the conversation.

If you’re intimidated by women, you need to work on building your confidence and become comfortable with approaching hot women. If you see an attractive woman, then you should immediately approach her.  When you get into the practice of approaching all hot women you see, you’re nervousness and fears will quickly fade away. Once you get into a pattern of approaching women and initiating conversations with women, you’ll experience a dramatic increase in your success. Even if you’re only able to pick up a woman once in awhile, you’ll at least have more experience with your approach techniques. Also, you’ll be closer towards eliminating your fear of rejection. Attracting and seducing women is possible. But if you let your fears and nervousness get in the way, you’ll have little chance of success.  All you have to do is practice your approach techniques and become more confident, then you’ll master the art of attraction. You can find out more about this by reading my previous articles on seduction and attraction, so check them out!

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9 Steps To Greater Success with Online Dating

If you’re trying to date online and aren’t getting very far, then you’re probably doing something wrong. Most people are able to score at least one date a week with a little effort and a little luck. If you’re having trouble then take a look at the tips below.

Remember, the aim here is to get this person offline as soon as possible (without wanting to come across creepy). The sooner you move things into the real world, the sooner chemistry can do it’s job. Keep in mind that women feel attraction in a completely different way to men. Personality, self-esteem, confidence and attitude are all just as important as looks.

So, what are the secrets to successful online dating?

1. Keep your replies simple and use easy questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with.

2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit unreachable. Think of yourself as special and don’t lower your standards.

3. Just be yourself. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

4. Use humour (although it’s OK to be a little cocky too). It creates a wonderful, entertaining challenge that women just love to engage in… If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she is NOT expecting, then something magical begins to happen: she feels a spark of attraction, curiosity, intrigue because you’re obviously something different.

5. People like people who are interested in them. So when you engage someone in conversation make sure you spend at least two-thirds of the time listening to your partner!

6. When you are talking about you, tell enough just to get her trust but keep a little mystery about you. Women love a little mystery.

7. Never ever make yourself to available. With online conversation you have to make her believe that you’re confident, that you’re intelligent and funny. Do not stay any longer or you risk to become boring. Don’t let the conversation fizzle.

8. Find an excuse to leave a good conversation, but not before you let her know that you’re interested in her. Set another online date but not for the next day. You’re a popular and busy man, remember?

9. Arrange the actual date as soon as possible after the suggestion of meeting is made. You want to get her whilst things are hot and before things drag on. Don’t suggest meeting if you’re busy the next 7 days. Go for the same day if possible – this way, she will be surprised and won’t have to much time to make the decision and you will run less risk of being rejected.

If she is interested in you but she already has something fixed for that evening, she will ask for a date another time. If she keeps saying she’s busy, she’s probably just leading you on. Remember, if she’s interested, she will MAKE TIME for you!

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The Secret Weapon of Seduction

Target Acquired. You’ve found the object of your desire and you wish to reel her in? You’ve got your first date. How do you carry it off?

I’ll let you in on a little secret – humour.

If you can make us laugh and giggle, then you’ve usually seduced us too. Why? Because laughter leads to happiness and happiness releases endorphins in the brain making us feel both more comfortable and more positive! And we all like to be around people who we feel good with.

It’s also relaxing. Laughter lowers the heart rate, eases tension and generally reduces any barriers they may have around themselves. She’ll be mentally screening you, checking you out in fine detail. It’s pretty nerve-wracking, but with a good use of humour you can make her smile and more open. Your goal on the first date should be to make her feel good and receptive to a 2nd date. You want her to want to continue to get to know you.

So how should you do it? Well first things first, don’t be a clown. It’s easy to go overboard so don’t just mindlessly memorise a load of jokes and read them off. If she wanted that she’d be at a comedy club. Instead, use a few jokes, hear and there, when the situation is right. You can even use a few more risqué jokes if you feel the date is heading in the right direction – see what presses her buttons.

There’s plenty of things you can joke about without being offensive. It’s good to get a feel for what she finds funny and where the line is before trying anything too out of the ordinary. Perhaps joke about where you are, some funny stories or anecdotes from the past. Prepare some good stories and practise them.

Remember, your aim here is to make her relax and smile. You should be able to assess what’s working and adjust on the fly. You don’t want her rolling around on the floor laughing. Learn how to put her at ease and if you can pull that off, you’ll find seducing the woman of your dreams a cinch.

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Wednesday’s Top Sex Tip #3 – Play A Game

Tip #3: Play A Game

No, I’m not talking mind games. Get a deck of cards out and play strip poker. Yes, it’s something you probably haven’t done since those teenage parties, but playing strip poker is a great way to get naked together. Drawing out the process that little longer just increases the feeling of anticipation, and who wouldn’t want that? 😉

Once you’re naked, keep on playing. Rules are simple: whoever loses means the other person gets to pick one sexual favour to be carried out there and then. Put a time limit on it for say 30 seconds.

This prolonged fore-play technique is great as it is simple and effective. By the time you are finished with the pack, you’ll both be insanely turned on.

It doesn’t have to be poker either, it can be any variety of card games with regular wins and losses. Snap is another great one as the high-speed play element just makes things more exciting!

Click here to read yesterday’s tip about breasts, and check back tomorrow for another top sex tip!

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How to Get A Girl To Have Sex and Get Into Bed With You

Seduction.

I could leave it there. Without this, even the most attractive of men won’t be able to take a woman home. An average looking man who can seduce a woman will win every single time over an extremely attractive man with no seduction skills. It is imperative you know how to seduce, and once you do, you’ll have the luxury of being able to ask “My place or yours?”.

To seal the deal, you’ll need to attract the woman first. Just by being good looking or talking to a woman won’t make her yearn for you. You’ve got to show her you’re really interested in her and don’t try to beat around the bush. This part of seduction will take time. Never try and trick a woman into sleeping with you; generally women are pretty smart and can see through this. They’ve probably heard every cheesy pickup line in the world, and you’ll be sure they’re not going to work.

Be honest and straightforward without being rude and push. Lying out all of your good qualities in full view will help lure her in. Here are the top things to think about when it comes to seduction:

  • Physical attraction is very important. Dress well, shave and look sharp
  • Charm is incredibly useful in showing her you’re interested, and gives you a great attitude towards her
  • Intellectual conversation, interesting topics, politics, current affairs, etc are all better than talking about the weather. Think about your conversations
  • Appear Harmless and don’t come across as a stalker. You need her to want to let her guard down, not try and hold you at arms length
  • Emotional Seduction is important. Give her that warm fuzzy feeling and be spontaneous and exciting in how you talk to her
  • Chivalry isn’t Dead. Treat her as special; but don’t put her on a pedestal – there’s a fine line between making her feel wanted and being needy

So, by now you should’ve worked out the basics of seduction. Once you’ve drawn her in, make sure you think about the following:

  • Put Her First, not all of the time, but don’t let her think the only thing you’re interested in is satisfying your own needs
  • Make Her Feel Beautiful, it’s a bit of point-scoring with this one, but it’s a standard one and easy to do
  • Deliver Orgasms. Guys, learn the signs of her faking it. Never let her leave feeling unsatisfied or she won’t stick around. Explore her body
  • Provide Her With Pleasure, it’s a give and take thing. And sex is far more amazing when you both learn how to push each others buttons
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